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MOGGIE MAKES MY WORLD GO ROUND

How a cat’s love helped a severely autistic 7-year-old learn human interactions

Iris Grace and puss Thula are adorable best friends who go everywhere together

MEET seven-year-old Iris Grace Halmshaw and her best friend Thula – the remarkable cat who helped this severely autistic little girl to come out of her shell.

The pair’s amazing bond has transformed Iris’s world and astounded and delighted her parents, Arabella and P-J.

 Thula Madly Deeply... Iris and pet cat Thula have a unique and special relationship
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Thula Madly Deeply... Iris and pet cat Thula have a unique and special relationship

Arabella, 34, said: “I never imagined an animal would bring so much joy to Iris’s life. Before Thula, she used to cry a lot — it was distressing for both of us.

“But she has changed more than I could have imagined since Thula came into our lives. It is like a miracle.”

Iris had been unresponsive as a baby, failed to start speaking when expected and could not socialise, look people in the eye or settle at night.

 Cat napping... Iris could never settle at night but now nods off easily with Thula by her side
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Cat napping... Iris could never settle at night but now nods off easily with Thula by her sideCredit: Arabella Halmshaw / Harper Collins
 Puss in Boats... Iris and Thula go everywhere together, even keeping each other company on a river cruise
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Puss in Boats... Iris and Thula go everywhere together, even keeping each other company on a river cruiseCredit: Arabella Halmshaw / Harper Collins

Her extreme fear of water made washing a daily struggle.

At two she was diagnosed with severe autism and doctors warned Arabella and P-J, a 45-year-old finance worker, that she may never be able to communicate.

But when Iris was five she bonded with a friend’s cat, prompting Arabella to get her a kitten of her own. She settled on Thula, a Maine Coon, the largest breed of domestic cat.

 Arabella chose Maine Coon cat Thula for Iris as they are notoriously a very sociable, affectionate breed
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Arabella chose Maine Coon cat Thula for Iris as they are notoriously a very sociable, affectionate breedCredit: Arabella Halmshaw / Harper Collins
 Tabby in the tub-by... bathing was an ordeal before water-loving Thula joined in
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Tabby in the tub-by... bathing was an ordeal before water-loving Thula joined inCredit: Arabella Halmshaw / Harper Collins

Iris and her new pet became inseparable. Following Thula’s calming example, Iris started to relax while doing things she had previously hated, including bathing and wearing clothes.

Arabella, 34, a photographer from Market Harborough, Leics, said: “We took Thula everywhere, to the shops, on picnics, and every time I was amazed how calm and happy Iris was.

“One day Iris was painting when Thula walked across her painting table. Iris said, ‘Sit, cat’ — and Thula sat instantly. It was amazing. For the first time Iris used words for a purpose.”

 Pablo Picatto ... Iris puts the finishing touches to one of her paintings, which have previously been snapped up by celebs like Angelina Jolie, while Thula watches intently
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Pablo Picatto ... Iris puts the finishing touches to one of her paintings, which have previously been snapped up by celebs like Angelina Jolie, while Thula watches intentlyCredit: Arabella Halmshaw / Harper Collins
 Mog-elling clay... Thula does her best to help Iris with her Play-Doh
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Mog-elling clay... Thula does her best to help Iris with her Play-DohCredit: Arabella Halmshaw / Harper Collins
 Mum Arabella says now Thula has taught Iris so much about human interaction she's confident her daughter will be fine on her own one day
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Mum Arabella says now Thula has taught Iris so much about human interaction she's confident her daughter will be fine on her own one dayCredit: Arabella Halmshaw / Harper Collins

Iris’s artistic skill has particularly blossomed and she now posts her paintings on Facebook, where they have been snapped up by celebs such as Ashton Kutcher, Zooey Deschanel and Angelina Jolie.

Olivia Colman and Daniel Radcliffe have also backed Arabella’s campaign to raise autism awareness.

Arabella adds: “Thula’s taught Iris so much about human interaction, I know she’ll be fine on her own one day.”

— Iris Grace, by Arabella Carter-Johnson, is published by Penguin, £7.99.

MAINE COON CATS: THE FACTS

Maine Coon cats are said to be gentle giants. They can weigh up to 18lbs, putting them among the world’s largest cats.

Affectionate and playful, they are known as the dogs of the cat world. Some have been known to walk on a lead or play fetch.

Stewie, the longest-ever cat, was a Maine Coon. When fully stretched out he measured 48.5in from nose to tail tip.

Unlike other cat breeds, these love water. Thanks to their water-resistant coats they are efficient swimmers.

Their origin is disputed. Some say they are descended from six cats that Marie Antoinette, the last queen of France, shipped to the US state of Maine in the 1700s. Others say they are the result of wild cats mating with raccoons.

A Maine Coon called Pebbles played Argus Filch’s cat Mrs Norris in the Harry Potter films.